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National Domestic Abuse Helpline | Female advisers who can talk in confidence, in many different languages, 24-hours a day, 365 days a year.

 

FAQ guide to Kooth for parents and carers

 

How to talk to your children about world news

 

Worrying world news: How can I help?

 

How to help your child deal with online content about the war between Russia and Ukraine

 

Anti Bullying Support

 

Managing stress and building resilience - tips - Mind

 

How to manage and reduce stress | Mental Health Foundation

 

10 stress busters - NHS (www.nhs.uk)

 

Short Films to support young peoples mental health

 

Improving children’s and young people's mental health – Place2Be

 

Home - Joes Buddy Line

 

The Mix - Essential support for under 25s

 

Grow - Education

 

Don't Hide Your Mind -Talk About It (Video)

NHS Live Well- Healthy Lifestyles

 

Resources for Families | Covers a range of topics such as Mental Health, Bullying, Transition to Secondary, and more

 

Resources for schools | Children's Commissioner for England

 

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Help & advice | Childnet

 

Cyber Choices | Metropolitan Police

 

How to support someone you're worried about

 

How to navigate online disinformation and propaganda and practicing information resilience

 

Parent Online Safety | Presentation

 

 What are social media algorithms? Advice for parents and carers 

 

Supporting young people with SEN online

 

What Parents & Educators Need to Know about Snapchat

 

Keeping Kids Safe Online | Online Safety Sessions 

 

What is Algospeak on Social Media? | Advice and Awareness

 

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Staying safe around water

Splash Into Summer Safely!

For Information

Please share any relevant messaging below with your school communities:

Water activities can be fun, but staying safe is essential. As we head into the summer holidays it’s a good time to learn about staying safe in and around water.

Visit Barnet Council’s Water Safety pages for tips and advice for families and young people to stay safe around water.
 

Water safety for young people and adults

Please see Barnet Council’s Swimming Safety flyer aimed at young people, but also relevant to adults.

Water Safety for Babies and Young Children

Always watch babies and young children when they are in or around water, including baths, paddling pools, and garden ponds. Drowning can happen silently and quickly, even in just a few centimetres of water. Follow the advice in Barnet Council’s Water Safety Flyer for Parents of babies and young children.

Learn to swim

Barnet’s Better gyms offer swimming lessons and swim safety awareness for all ages and abilities. Visit: www.better.org.uk/swimming 


Keeping Cool

For information and advice about staying well in hot weather, visit: Keeping cool in summer | Barnet Council

Parent Support, Guidance & Courses

Barnet London Borough 

 

Families Feeling Safe

 

NSPCC Advice | Leaving Your Child Home Alone 

 

NSPCC- Support for Parents

 

The Children’s Commissioner | Talking to your child about online sexual harassment | A Guide for Parents

 

What Parents Need to Know about Health and Fitness Apps

 

What Parents Need to Know about Mental Health and Wellbeing Apps

 

Guide to Informing Parents about Harmful Content

 

Crime Stoppers 

 

 

 

Study Leave and Barnet Libraries

For Information

As we approach study leave, we’d welcome support from schools to help Libraries provide safe and productive study space for students. Please inform your pupils approaching study leave of the following rules for studying in Barnet libraries:

  • Library staff and customers should be treated with respect. We will not tolerate swearing, offensive or inappropriate behaviour
  • Study space is limited and is provided on a first come, first served basis. We are not always able to accommodate every student. Once full, you will need to leave and come back at another time
  • If your study space is unattended for more than 15 minutes, it will be allocated to another student
  • Computer desks are only available for people using that PC, not for study
  • Furniture must not be moved
  • Please be quiet
  • Please place all litter in bins provided
    Food deliveries, hot food or take-aways are not permitted
  • Please do not let anyone into the library if they do not have their own library card or they are not registered for self-service opening. Do not share your card
  • Some areas of the library are reserved for users who are not studying
  • Please respect other library users’ and their needs
  • Sockets are limited. We recommend you charge your device before you come to the library as you may not be able to plug in
  • If you do have safe access to a socket, wires must not trail across the floor
  • Please ensure people can get to the library shelves to browse
  • Fire escapes must be kept clear
  • For your safety and security, libraries are monitored by CCTV at all times

Study space is available in both staffed hours and self-service opening times. Young people aged 14 and over can register for self-service opening by completing a form at any Barnet Library in staffed opening times. The form must be signed by a parent or guardian.

Resources

We offer a wide range of resources to support students. Our reputable Online Resources include biographies, dictionaries, encyclopedias and research sites. All are available to use free with a Barnet Library card. Library members can enjoy our free unlimited wifi and use a computer free for 3 hours each day. Printing and photocopying facilities are available for a small fee.

 

 

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Counselling services for young people

Talk about it | Barnet Council

 

Our counselling services | Rephael House

 

NCL Parents in Mind March 24(CAMHS treatment waiting list)

 

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Parents in Mind Referral Form

 

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We're still here over summer: Let's Talk about Loneliness & Healthy Relationships

London Friend - Offers short-term and low-cost LGBTQ+ counselling and free domestic abuse counselling

Stronger Relationships Programme

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Free online parenting support to help parents and carers navigate conflict – Now available borough-wide

Thanks to Barnet’s investment in reducing parental conflict, all parents and carers in the borough now have free access to a fully facilitated, six-week online parenting course: SFSC: Stronger Relationships.

Barnet commissioned this programme, delivered by national charity Race Equality Foundation, as part of the Dept of Works and Pensions, Reducing Parental Conflict Programme. The course is designed for co-parents (together or apart) who may be struggling to communicate or manage stress at home. It aims to reduce conflict, strengthen co-parenting relationships, and improve outcomes for children, particularly important as we approach the summer holidays, when tensions can rise in households.

The course is:

  • Free and flexible: six weekly self-study modules and six weekly live Zoom group discussions
  • Inclusive: trauma-informed and culturally responsive
  • Accessible: evening sessions available, no referral needed
  • Confidential: parents sign up directly, and no information is shared

Who is it for?

Any parent or carer of a child aged 0–18 living in Barnet – especially helpful for:

  • Separated or co-parenting families
  • Parents navigating SEND, financial stress or family transitions
  • Families preparing for the move to secondary school

How to register:

Parents can sign up here: SFSC Stronger Relationships

For more information or support, contact: sfscparent@racefound.org.uk

Flyers (PDF and JPEG) are available upon request for inclusion in school newsletters, parent hubs, WhatsApp groups, or family forums.

Please share with families and professionals across your network so more Barnet families can benefit from this offer.

In addition to this free on-line Reducing Parental Conflict Programme for parents, our Child and Family Early Helps, also provide one-to-one, 6-week reducing parental conflict interventions for parents. To refer-

Finally, we have a range of self-help materials for parents around reducing parental conflict on Barnet’s webpage:

Fostering a sense of belonging

 

BYCAS - Barnet Young Carer Support

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Kinship support and advice

Kinship carers are family or friends who step up, often during an unexpected crisis, to care for a child when their parents aren’t able to.

KINSHIP is a leading kinship care charity in England and Wales who are running workshops and events both online and in-person. 


Free training and events for kinship carers | Kinship

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Training and events Kinship carers tell us their journey can be overwhelming and confusing. To help you navigate this complex system, we run workshops and events both online and in-person. Explore our events below and to stay up to date with new events, join our community. Join our community

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Supporting young people around transitions/ returning to school after school breaks/ holidays

For some children, the return to education at the end of the school holidays can be a difficult time for a variety of reasons. The start of the new term comes with plenty of challenges, from social worries to the stress of ensuring they’re entirely ready for upcoming lessons and learning.

Of course, these youngsters don’t have to weather these burdens alone, and as parents and educators, we should do all we can to support the children in our care as they head back to school. This free guide offers you expert advice on how you can be there for children and young people as they transition back into their school’s routine.

Sources

https://www.sleepfoundation.org

https://www.nutrition.org.uk

https://www.childmind.org

 

How to help students with SEND settle into secondary | Tes

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Medical Support

NHS parental advice managing infectious diseases

The Compton Medical Support

 

Is my child too ill for school?

 

How can Pharamacies Help | NHS Advice

 

Do you know about Pharamcy First? | YouTube Video

 

Communications Toolkit for UKHSA Stakeholders

 

Welcome to NARF Allergy School, Teaching Children About Food Allergies

 

Allergy Guidance for Schools | GOVUK

 

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For parents/carers:

Cases of measles are increasing locally – is your child protected?

Measles spreads quickly and can cause serious illness. Vaccination is the only way to protect against measles. Two doses of the MMR (measles, mumps and rubella) vaccine offers life-long protection. Children who get measles can become very ill. Some will suffer life changing complications.

To stop the spread and reduce serious illness, make sure your child is up to date with their MMR vaccinations. The MMR vaccine is offered at 1 year (first dose) and 3 years and 4 months (second dose).

How to get your child vaccinated?

If your child missed one or two doses of the MMR vaccine, contact your GP practice and book an appointment. All routine childhood vaccines are free. Or attend a catch up clinic, details below:

  • MMR Paediatrics clinic at UCLH
  • MMR Clinic Paediatrics Department, Elizabeth Garrett Anderson Wing, University College Hospital, 25 Grafton Way London, WC1E 6DB.
  • Saturday 29 June, 9am to 4:45pm
  • Book your appointment here  
  • Translation services are available for patients whose first language is not English.

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Diabetes Week

For Information

Did you know 1 in 10 people in Barnet are at risk of developing diabetes?  

Every year, around 200,000 people in England are diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, a condition that can lead to serious health complications. Many people don't know they are at risk.  

Do you know your risk? 

This diabetes week (9 to15 June), we are encouraging Barnet residents to take simple steps to reduce their risk of diabetes by learning about the signs and symptoms and making small lifestyle changes to prevent it, such as eating well, moving more and managing your heart health.  

Come along to our free Diabetes Prevention Event at the main atrium in Brent Cross Shopping Centre on Friday 20 June, 10am-6pm. Learn more about type 2 diabetes and how you can prevent it: 

  • Get a free ‘Know Your Risk’ score to find out your risk of type 2 diabetes 
  • Speak to a range of professionals (including from Diabetes UK, NHS, Healthy Hearts and Age UK Barnet) to learn how you can reduce your risk of developing type 2 diabetes. 
  • Look out for a performance by the Saracens Foundation dancers and get creative with arts & crafts activities for the kids!   

Visit yourhealthbarnet.org/diabetes-prevention to learn more about diabetes and find practical support. 

Education on Eating Disorders and Disordered Eating

 

HPV Vaccine

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Protect your child's future with the HPV vaccine 

Did you know that the HPV vaccine prevents up to 90% of cervical cancers, as well as some mouth, throat and anal cancers? 

The HPV vaccine protects both boys and girls from being infected by the human papillomavirus (HPV).  After the Easter Break, school vaccination teams will be offering the vaccine to all Year 8s (12 & 13 year olds) in school, and to children in older year groups who have missed out. 

If your child misses their HPV vaccine at school, it’s not too late. Anyone aged 16 and under who misses the vaccine at school can get it at a catch-up clinic. If you are 17-25, check with your GP if they are offering the HPV vaccine. 

To learn more about HPV, sign the online consent form or find a catch-up clinic, visit: www.schoolvaccination.uk/hpv-vaccine

Help improve HPV uptake in Barnet by sharing the campaign using the HPV vaccine toolkit.

Jen Ross
Senior Communications & Campaigns Manager
Public Health
Communities, Adults & Health
London Borough of Barnet

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Financial Support / Food Banks

Information for all settings: Raising awareness of discounted social broadband tariffs

Home broadband is increasingly essential for supporting learning. Households receiving benefits such as Universal Credit could be eligible for discounted social tariffs, helping them stay connected at lower costs.

We recognise the role of schools, colleges and others in engaging students and their families.

We encourage you to signpost these offers to eligible households. For more information, please visit Ofcom’s website.

Barnet food banks

Free School Meals Application

  • Prepare your home - Check for available financial support, implement energy-saving practices to reduce heating costs, and ensure your appliances are both safe and in good working condition.
  • Plan ahead – Check the weather forecast and the news to stay informed, ensure you have enough food and medicine, and take simple measures to reduce draughts at home for your comfort and well-being.
  • Keep yourself warm – Heat rooms you use the most to at least 18°C. Use draft excluders on doors, keep bedroom windows closed at night, and layer thinner clothing for better insulation.
  • Look after each other - Check in on neighbours, friends and family who might struggle in the colder weather, and if you see someone who is rough sleeping, visit Streetlink who can connect them with the support they need.
  • Look after yourself – Protect yourself and others by getting vaccinated against flu, and seek help by calling NHS 111 or 999 in emergencies.
  • Visit a Warm Space – If you are looking for a place to get out of the cold, connect with others, and warm up, then visit one of Barnet’s warm spaces – welcoming community hubs for residents to stay warm and engage with others.

For more tips and advice on staying well this winter, visit Your Health Barnet.

SEND support for parents and young people

School attendance support for parents and young people 

Support for Students - The Compton School

 

Childline- Support for Children and Families

 

National Domestic Abuse Helpline | Female advisers who can talk in confidence, in many different languages, 24-hours a day, 365 days a year.

 

FAQ guide to Kooth for parents and carers

 

How to talk to your children about world news

 

Worrying world news: How can I help?

 

How to help your child deal with online content about the war between Russia and Ukraine

 

Anti Bullying Support

 

Managing stress and building resilience - tips - Mind

 

How to manage and reduce stress | Mental Health Foundation

 

10 stress busters - NHS (www.nhs.uk)

 

Short Films to support young peoples mental health

 

Improving children’s and young people's mental health – Place2Be

 

Home - Joes Buddy Line

 

The Mix - Essential support for under 25s

 

Grow - Education

 

Don't Hide Your Mind -Talk About It (Video)

NHS Live Well- Healthy Lifestyles

 

Resources for Families | Covers a range of topics such as Mental Health, Bullying, Transition to Secondary, and more

 

Resources for schools | Children's Commissioner for England

 

Stress management tools

 

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Stress support

 

Stress signs 2

 

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Help & advice | Childnet

 

Cyber Choices | Metropolitan Police

 

How to support someone you're worried about

 

How to navigate online disinformation and propaganda and practicing information resilience

 

Parent Online Safety | Presentation

 

 What are social media algorithms? Advice for parents and carers 

 

Supporting young people with SEN online

 

What Parents & Educators Need to Know about Snapchat

 

Keeping Kids Safe Online | Online Safety Sessions 

 

What is Algospeak on Social Media? | Advice and Awareness

 

Making Friends Online | Parent Factsheet Image (1)

Helping young people stay safe on smartphones and online

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Staying safe around water

Splash Into Summer Safely!

For Information

Please share any relevant messaging below with your school communities:

Water activities can be fun, but staying safe is essential. As we head into the summer holidays it’s a good time to learn about staying safe in and around water.

Visit Barnet Council’s Water Safety pages for tips and advice for families and young people to stay safe around water.
 

Water safety for young people and adults

Please see Barnet Council’s Swimming Safety flyer aimed at young people, but also relevant to adults.

Water Safety for Babies and Young Children

Always watch babies and young children when they are in or around water, including baths, paddling pools, and garden ponds. Drowning can happen silently and quickly, even in just a few centimetres of water. Follow the advice in Barnet Council’s Water Safety Flyer for Parents of babies and young children.

Learn to swim

Barnet’s Better gyms offer swimming lessons and swim safety awareness for all ages and abilities. Visit: www.better.org.uk/swimming 


Keeping Cool

For information and advice about staying well in hot weather, visit: Keeping cool in summer | Barnet Council

How to Support Young People Online

Securus has provided a list of potentially dangerous Apps for children, including popular platforms that students and children may be using in 2025 for social engagement through messages, chats, gaming, and image & video sharing – many of which pose a danger and expose young people to risks such as: 

  • Cyberbullying
  • Inappropriate content
  • Online predators
  • Sexual exploitation, and so much more

High Risk (Most Dangerous) Apps & Platforms used by children

 

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Monkey (Omegle)

Monkey (formerly Omegle) puts two strangers together in their choice of a text chat or a video chat room. Being anonymous can be very attractive to teens, and the app provides a no-fuss opportunity to make connections. Its "interest boxes" also let users filter potential chat partners by shared interests. Users get paired up with strangers and there's no registration required. Monkey (Omegle) is filled with people searching for sexual chat. Some prefer to do so live. Others offer links to porn sites. Since the chats are anonymous, they're often much more explicit than those with an identifiable user.

 

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OmeTV

OmeTV is a random video chat app available on both mobile and web, connecting users with strangers around the world. It allows users to filter matches by gender and location, but like Monkey (Omegle), it lacks strong moderation and offers anonymity, which can lead to exposure to inappropriate content or interactions with predators

 

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Chatroulette

Chatroulette is a website and app which lets users talk to another person anywhere in the world. When you go onto the website, Chatroulette connects you to someone at random. Users can talk to people via live video or text chat.

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YouNow

YouNow is an app that lets users stream and watch live broadcasts. They can comment or buy virtual "gold bars" to give to other users. Because it's live video, they can do or say anything and can respond to requests from viewers - in real time. Though there seems to be moderation around content, there's plenty of swearing and occasional sharing of personal information with anonymous viewers. It mimics real-life potential to do things they normally wouldn't in pursuit of approval but in a public way. Children often broadcast from their bedrooms, with personal information visible, and they sometimes share a phone number or an email address with viewers, not knowing who's really watching.

 

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Badoo

Badoo is a social/dating app promotes the idea of meeting new people, sharing interests and even dating. It’s a way to make connections with those who share similar characteristics and you can search for people nearby. Badoo uses GPS technology, making it easy for predators to find users.

 

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MeetMe

MeetMe is a dating app with a "Match" feature whereby users can "secretly admire" others, and its large user base means fast-paced communication and guaranteed attention. Users can chat with whoever is online, as well as search locally, opening the door to potential trouble. The app also asks permission to use location services on your teens' mobile devices, meaning they can find the closest matches wherever they go.

 

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LiveMe

LiveMe is social platform, available as both an app and a website, that allows users, mainly teens and young adults, to stream or watch live videos. These live feeds showcase a variety of content, from dancing to yoga and gaming. Viewers can engage by posting comments, interacting with the streamer, and sending virtual gifts, which can be purchased within the app. The most popular broadcasters can convert virtual coins into real money. Coins can be earnt as a way of grooming children or young people online.

 

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GroupMe

GroupMe is a messaging app where users can send group or private messages from their computer or phone using WiFi. Since activity from the GroupMe app doesn’t show up on their parents’ phone bill, some users use the app to hide their messaging activity. The app has built-in features that allow users to search the web directly from the app. There is no way to moderate or filter that content.

 

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Yubo

Yubo is a social networking app that allows users to make new friends through a swiping mechanism similar to Tinder. The concept of making quick judgments based on profile pictures and live streaming with strangers can lead to inappropriate interactions.

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Grindr

Grindr is a social media app is aimed toward gay, bisexual and bi-curious men. This app uses your mobile’s location-based services to show you Grindr guys close in your area and can lead to children & teenagers meeting with adults and exposes them to predator dangers and sexual risks.

 

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Tinder

Tinder is a photo and messaging dating app for browsing pictures of potential matches within a certain-mile radius of the user's location. It's very popular with 20-somethings as a way to meet new people for casual or long-term relationships.

 

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Bumble

Bumble is similar to Tinder, however women must be the first to make contact. Young people and teens have been known to lie about their age and create fake accounts on apps which makes it easy for predators to target victims.

Moderate Risk Apps & Platforms used by children

 

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Instagram

Instagram is a is a picture and video sharing app. Users can post content and use hashtags to share experiences, thoughts or memories with an online community. You can follow your friends, family, celebrities and even companies on Instagram. Photos and videos shared on Instagram are public unless privacy settings are adjusted. Hashtags and location information can make photos even more visible to communities beyond a young person’s followers if his or her account is public. It allows strangers to contact users, potentially opening doors for online predators to connect.

 

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WhatsApp

WhatsApp lets users send text messages, audio messages, videos, and photos to one or many people with no message limits or fees. It's for users 16 and over but lots of young people seem to be using the app. After you sign up, it automatically connects you to all the people in your address book who also are using WhatsApp. It also encourages you to add friends who haven't signed up yet.

 

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TikTok

TikTok is immensely popular but comes with minimal age verification. It exposes users to challenges and trends that may not be age-appropriate, and its public accounts allow anyone to view and interact with videos posted by children, raising concerns about exposure to online predators.

 

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Snapchat

Snapchat is one of the most used social media apps. It has gained popularity as an app that lets you post self-destructive pictures and is known for its disappearing messages. The erasure however is not foolproof so other users can capture pictures with great ease. Millions of teens are using this every day, to share fun pictures, show their friends what they’re doing and sexting risky images.

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Telegram

Telegram is a messaging app known for its emphasis on privacy, speed, and security. It allows users to send messages, photos, videos, and other files, and offers features like encrypted chats, channels, and group chats with up to 200,000 members. While Telegram is popular for its user-friendly design and secure communications, it can also pose significant risks for children, especially when used without proper supervision as it does not have a robust age verification system or parental controls.

 

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Discord

Discord is a voice and text chat tool, originally used for gamers but has become a broader community platform. Its feature of connecting with strangers over shared interests poses risks, as the app lacks stringent monitoring, potentially exposing users to inappropriate material.

 

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Skout

Skout is a flirting app that allows users to sign up as teens or adults. They're then placed in the appropriate peer group, where they can post into a feed, comment on others' posts, add pictures, and chat. They'll get notifications when other users near their geographic area join, and they can search other areas by cashing in points. They receive notifications when someone "checks" them out but must pay points to see who it is. There's no age verification. This makes it easy for a young person to say he/she's older than 18 and an adult to say younger.

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Whisper

Whisper is an anonymous social media app where users can post confessions and secrets. While it might appear to be a place for harmless venting, the app's anonymity can lead to cyberbullying, the sharing of explicit content, and the possibility of dangerous real-world encounters.

 

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Kik Messenger

Kik Messenger is an app that lets users text for free. It's fast and has no message limits, character limits, or fees if you only use the basic features. Because it's an app, the texts won't show up on the child's phone's messaging service. It allows communication with strangers who share their Kik usernames to find people to chat with. The app allegedly has been used in high-profile crimes, including child pornography. There's also a community blog where users can submit photos of themselves and screenshots of message. The lack of age verification and the ability to message strangers make it a risky platform for young users.

 

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Holla

Holla is a video chat app that allows users to connect with strangers in real time, anywhere around the world. In the style of Tinder, users can swipe right on the suggested profiles until they make a “match”. Once a match is made, they are paired and the live video chat starts. Once inside the chat, users can play with filters and special effects.

 

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Voxer

Voxer is an app being used by young people that has been linked to some serious cyber bullying cases. Voxer allows a user to send a real-time voice message to another Voxer user and leave messages as a voicemail. The attraction to children is that it works real-time and they don’t need to go through a mobile service provider. This feature also means users can send bullying group texts, chat with strangers, or send inappropriate photos user-to-user without it showing up on a parent’s phone bill.

Lower Risk Apps & Platforms used by children

 

Sprunki

Sprunki

Sprunki is a suite of fan-made online music games inspired by Incredibox that lets you create your own musical tracks by combining animated characters, each with a unique sound. Sprunki is available via its website and various online game-creation platforms such as Roblox. Many of these games contain elements of horror, gore and violence but there is no minimum age on Sprunki. The creators of Sprunki have added the warning 'this game contains disturbing images and scenes of explicit violence and gore' to many of the games.

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Minecraft

Minecraft is an online game where players can build their own environment and communities known on Minecraft as ‘Worlds’. The game lets you play alone or with friends. All servers have a chat function where players can talk to each other and communicate via a chat box. You can also send private messages known as ‘Whispers’. This could put users at risk of being exposed to inappropriate language or content or even bullying.

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Roblox

Roblox is a gaming platform where players can create and publish their own games. This means that other users could build games that contain adult or inappropriate content. Players can use the communication features of Roblox to talk to one other while they are playing. This means that there is a risk of cyberbullying, scamming or unwanted predator contact.

 

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Tumblr

Tumblr is a blogging platform but it’s really a loosely organized social network. Children and young people like each other’s posts, comment on them and field questions asked by other users, both strangers and friends. Blog posts are sometimes funny and amusing but the problem is they are uncensored and often pornographic. There is a high likelihood that a child has also come across such a post, read it and has been influenced by it. Pornographic images and videos and depictions of violence, self-harm, drug use, and offensive language are easily searchable. Reblogging on Tumblr is similar to re-tweeting: A post is reblogged from one tumblog to another.

 

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Stars

Stars is a private messaging app that enables users to send messages, photos, videos, and voice recordings without requiring a phone number or access to a device’s address book. Users can message and video chat in small private groups. There are no filters to limit content and images and therefore a risk of inappropriate or harmful content can be sent.

 

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Wishbone

Wishbone is an app that allows users to compare against each other and rate them on a scale. In terms of safety, users are able to write comments underneath cards or, in the case that two users follow one another, send other users a direct message using a facility which is very similar to a chat room. Some users have generated cards including images of people that they know for other site users to select the prettiest or hottest.

 

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Calculator% is one of a few apps used to hide photos, videos, files and browser history, The app looks like a calculator but functions like a secret photo vault. The app helps users to lie to their parents by masking their screen with a calculator at the press of a button. By punching four digits into the calculator, users can access scores of photos and videos they've downloaded.

 

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AUDIO Manager

AUDIO Manager is another “vault” or secret app designed to hide messages, images and videos. You think teens are managing their music or controlling the volume on their phones, but if you press and hold the app icon, a lock screen pops up, which reveals hidden items, from text messages to pictures.

 

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ooVoo

ooVoo is a free video, voice, and messaging app. Users can have group chats with up to 12 people for free - and it's common for young people to log on after school and keep it open while doing homework. Maybe they're using it for group study sessions? Users can only communicate with those on their approved contact lists.

Overall Recommendations for Child Safety:

  • The apps in the High Risk category, such as Monkey (Omegle)Grindr, and MeetMe, should be avoided by children due to the high likelihood of exposure to inappropriate content, cyberbullying, or contact with strangers.
  • Apps like InstagramSnapchat, and TikTok have features that can be more safely used with parental guidance, but they still require monitoring due to the potential for exposure to inappropriate content and interactions.
  • Apps in the Lower Risk category, such as MinecraftRoblox, and Wishbone, offer safer environments but should still be used with appropriate privacy settings and monitoring.

Language related to cyber-bullying, harassment and cyber crime

Cyber-stalking     Using the internet or text messages to repeatedly harass or bully someone – often using multiple apps and platforms and multiple accounts.
Doxing / Doxxing   Publicly posting someone's private information (e.g. their name, address, place of work or school), usually without their consent. This information might be used to harass the person further.
Dogpiling   When a group of people, usually a large group, target a single person with harassment.
Griefing   Deliberately trying to ruin other people's fun in online games (e.g. blowing up another player's house in Minecraft).
Finsta   'Fake Insta/Fake Instagram' – this may mean a second, private, Instagram account for sharing more personal content with a trusted group of friends, or a second Instagram account made to look like another person, either to impersonate them or bully them. This is also known as a 'sock puppet account'.
KYS   Stands for 'kill yourself', used to harass or upset others.
Phishing   A kind of scam where criminals trick targets into giving up personal information (including bank details or account passwords).
Ratio / Ratio'ing   When a negative response to a social media post gets far more positive engagement than the original post.
Troll / Trolling   Deliberately saying hurtful or inflammatory things to get a response from someone, or a group of people.
Sub-tweeting   Negatively talking about someone publicly on social media without tagging them in a post, so the person might not see it. It's most common on X (formerly Twitter) but can happen on other platforms.
Swatting   Calling emergency services (usually the police) and falsely claiming a serious crime is happening at someone else's home (e.g. a bomb threat or a hostage situation), with the intent of police arriving at the person's house. This is done to harass and frighten someone.

Language related to dating and sex

Bodycount     A way for someone to say how many people they've had sex with (e.g. 'my bodycount is 3').
Catfishing   Pretending to be someone else on the internet (e.g. on dating apps), sometimes to trick others into sending them nude images and/or money.
Ghosting   Suddenly breaking off all contact with someone, which might include blocking, 'unfriending' or unfollowing them on all platforms. This usually happens in romantic relationships but can also happen between friends.
Hook-up / Hookup   Casual sex and/or casual sexual relationships.  
Nudes   Nude or semi-nude images. It's sometimes written as 'newds', 'noods' or 'n00ds' to avoid language filters on some apps. 
Thirst trap   A sexually-suggestive photo or image intended to grab people's attention. It usually isn't a nude image so it can be posted on social media.

Language related to extreme beliefs

'Chad' and 'Stacy'     Used by people in the incel subculture to describe conventionally-attractive men ('Chads') and women ('Stacys').
Incel   'Involuntary celibate' – a subculture mostly made of young men who think they're unable to find a romantic or sexual partner. People in this group may blame women and girls for this, and use sexist and misogynistic language to describe women.
Manosphere   A subculture focused on masculinity and opposition to feminism. It's sometimes referred to as 'men's rights activism' or 'men going their own way (MGTOW)'.
Taking the red pill  

To become aware of 'truths' about the world according to a subculture. This mostly relates to incel and manosphere culture, but is also used by far-right extremists (e.g. 'becoming red-pilled on race').

Incels sometimes use the term 'black pill' – hopelessness that there is nothing a man can do to improve his attractiveness to women.

Great replacement  

A far-right conspiracy theory stating that the global elite is deliberately replacing the population of white people (mainly in Europe) with non-white people. It's related to 'white genocide' (see below).

White genocide   A far-right conspiracy theory stating that there is a plot to make white people extinct.

Wide media coverage of a popular TV show, soon to be available to all secondary schools, suggests that emojis like 🧨, 💯 and 🫘 may be used as part of conversations online about extremist ideas such as incel culture and the manosphere.

We haven't been able to confirm how they’re used, but it's worth being aware of what your child may ask you about.

If a pupil uses this language, it might be evidence that they are being radicalised. Find out your responsibilities under the Prevent duty, and how to make a referral

Emojis with inappropriate meanings

Emojis can have lots of different meanings and most of the time children and young people will use them innocently. However, they might sometimes use them to discuss inappropriate things.

If you see your child using these emojis, it doesn’t necessarily mean they’re using them in the ways described below.

Emojis change their meanings over time and can mean different things, depending on the context.

In this list, we've focused on emojis with inappropriate meanings that are widely recognised. The list isn't exhaustive, and we'll update it as we confirm definitions that are gaining wider use.

🌿 🥦 🍃

    Cannabis.

❄️ ⛄ 🎱

  Cocaine.

👀 🍜

  Nudes / noods – short for nude or semi-nude photos.

    🔌

  Plug – slang term for a drug dealer.

    🌽

  Pornography (rhyming ‘porn’ with ‘corn’).

ParentZone want to help parents access the information and support they need. That's where the Everyday Digital widget can help. The Everyday Digital widget allows you to display Parent Zone’s media literacy resources — including articles and videos — on your organisation’s website. It's free, quick to set up and will support the families you work with. Set up now Everyday Digital is a media literacy programme providing UK families with the skills and habits to navigate the digital world. The Upsetting news and media online guide can help children navigate distressing news and imagery in the media. It gives parents some tips on how to have uncomfortable conversations and be aware of uncensored content.

Upsetting news and media online | Parent Zone

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May 2025 secondary Online Safety

Violent content online

What parents educators need to know about emojis

Help & advice | Childnet

 

Cyber Choices | Metropolitan Police

 

How to support someone you're worried about

 

How to navigate online disinformation and propaganda and practicing information resilience

 

Parent Online Safety | Presentation

 

 What are social media algorithms? Advice for parents and carers 

 

Supporting young people with SEN online

 

What Parents & Educators Need to Know about Snapchat

 

Keeping Kids Safe Online | Online Safety Sessions 

 

What is Algospeak on Social Media? | Advice and Awareness

 

Making Friends Online | Parent Factsheet Image (1)

Helping young people stay safe on smartphones and online

Ofcom media report 2025

Generative ai safety 1

Nintendo switch 2

Gaming and Gambling Advice

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Wellbeing around results day

Group chats 2025

Online slang

Technology attachment

 

What parents educators need to know about emojis

Gaming and Gambling Advice 1

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Barnet Support Services for Parents and Students

Safer schools officer PC Parm

 

 

Cf Short Breaks

 

Parenting courses | Barnet Council

 

Reducing parental conflict | Barnet Council

 

Barnet Youth – Child and Family Early Help Service - Home - Home

 

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Barnet Youth – Child and Family Early Help Service -Events?CalendarID=117

 

Barnet Youth Magazine - Summer 2024

 

Barnet Youth Parent Info

 

Barnet Youth Parent Registration

 

Parental Conflict Flyer

 

Make a referral to the Early Help team | Barnet Council

 

Barnet Support- Child and Family Early Help

 

Barnet Support- Part of the Child and Family Early Help Service

 

Barnet Active Creative Engaging holidays - Spring 2024

 

Barnet Child and Family Services - External Support for Parents/ Students

 

The Barnet Safeguarding Children Partnership - Children & Young People

 

Barnet Advice and Resource Pack for Schools - Israel and Gaza

 

About us - Mayor's Fund for London

Barnet Resident Support Fund | Barnet Council

Barnet Youth Summer 2025 BACE and PA Summer Holidays

For Information

Please find attached the Barnet Youth Summer Digital Booklet, which outlines the BACE and PA summer holiday programmes for children living or attending school in Barnet. Every child is eligible for at least one of these programmes, so please share this information with all families. For those who requested printed copies you should be receiving these this week, if you have not received the printed copies by Friday 4 July 2025 please contact the team. Please note, we are not able to advertise our whole offer in the booklet, so please encourage families to browse the website to see what we have on offer.

BACE Programme (Holiday Activities and Food - HAF)

Eligibility:

Children from families on very low incomes or at risk of food poverty. Eligible children will receive a 16-digit voucher code via @HolidayActivities, issued through the school’s pupil premium list.

  • Voucher allows booking up to 16 days of BACE activities.
  • Additional days can be booked and paid for directly with providers or accessed via the PA programme.
  • Voucher codes will be issued by Friday, 4 July 2025, aligning with bookings opening at 6:00pm on Barnetyouth.uk.

Note:

Families not eligible for benefit-related FSM but receiving Universal Tax Credits may book directly with Ofsted-registered providers and claim back up to 85% of costs, potentially paying just £0.15 per £1.00. Please share the following with families you think might be eligible: Universal Credit childcare costs - GOV.UK

PA Programme (Positive Activities)
For children not eligible for BACE, the PA programme offers a wide range of summer activities. Bookings also open on 4 July 2025 at 6:00pm.

Referrals for Vulnerable Children
Professionals may refer children who are not eligible for BACE but are considered vulnerable. A limited 15% of places are reserved for these referrals.

Referral criteria include:

  • Known to Early Help
  • EHCP or physical disability respite
  • Home-educated
  • Social, emotional, or mental health needs
  • Refugee status

Before referring, please ensure the family is not already eligible via school voucher system (based on the following benefits):

  • Income Support
  • Income-based Jobseeker’s Allowance
  • Income-related ESA
  • Support under the Immigration and Asylum Act 1999
  • Pension Credit (guaranteed element)
  • Child Tax Credit (without Working Tax Credit, income ≤ £16,190)
  • Working Tax Credit run-on
  • Universal Credit (income < £15,400 after tax)

Please also confirm that a voucher code has not already been issued, as each code incurs a cost.

There are also additional costs incurred when large number of codes are issued after booking go live date. Can ALL SCHOOLS please ensure they have set-up the automated system to have codes issued on 4 July 2025. If you need any support to ensure your school is prepared, please contact @HolidayActivities

https://forms.office.com/e/Srui0JMUAg deadline for referral 14 July 2025 these will be issued weekly to parents. Any referrals made after this date maybe delayed.

Final reminder: As a Department for Education Funded programme we are asked to report how we confirm the eligibility of our BACE children accessing programmes. Therefore, all BACE activity bookings will receive several reminders to ensure they insert their 16-digit voucher code for every booking, those who do not supply codes are at risk of their bookings being cancelled as a result.

Charlene Townsend
Barnet Active Creative and Engaging Holidays Co-ordinator
BACE Early Help Services
London Borough of Barnet

 

 

Parent leaflet 2023

Counselling Services for Young People

Counselling services for young people

Talk about it | Barnet Council

 

Our counselling services | Rephael House

 

NCL Parents in Mind March 24(CAMHS treatment waiting list)

 

NCL Parents in Mind May 24(CAMHS treatment waiting list)

 

Parents in Mind Referral Form

 

Bics workshop poster 2024

We're still here over summer: Let's Talk about Loneliness & Healthy Relationships

London Friend - Offers short-term and low-cost LGBTQ+ counselling and free domestic abuse counselling

A Touch of Capital - New Mentoring Programme for Young Black Girls

For Information

My name is Tani Ilemobola. I previously served as a Member of Youth Parliament for Barnet and had the privilege of attending the Children's Partnership Board Meetings during my term. 
 

I'm now the founder of A Touch of Capital, a social enterprise aimed at supporting young black girls from African and Caribbean backgrounds in building higher levels of capital.Parents and carers can apply for a mentor for their child. 


We are currently preparing to launch our mentoring programme this summer. Please see flyer below with more information. 

 

Tani Ilemobola
Programme Director
A Touch of Capital

Keeping Young People Safe

Child Bereavement Support

Social/Emotional Learning & Trauma Informed Approaches

Benefits

Schools who have completed a whole school trauma-informed project have reported the following benefits:

  • Reduced number of reported behaviour incidents, fewer exclusions and improved attainment for vulnerable learners
  • Increased use of strategies to promote self-awareness and resilience leading to longer term solutions to self-regulation
  • A more consistent whole school, reflective approach.
  • Stronger relationships between children, staff and parent/carers.
  • An opportunity to consider how the school organisation and environment can support young people and their attachment & trauma needs.
  • The school is ahead of the curve in developing the expertise to meet the needs of Children with a Social Worker

Trama | Anna Frued

 

Childhood Trauma and the Brain | UK Trauma Council - YouTube

 

How a child’s body tells a story | UK Trauma Council

 

Coping with scary and distressing memories | UK Trauma Council

 

Childhood Trauma, War and Conflict (with English subtitles) | UK Trauma Council

 

What is PTSD? | UK Trauma Council

Trauma informed

Emotion coaching

5 Ways to Wellbeing | Toolkit

 

Helping a Child who is Experiencing Anger | Toolkit

 

Helping a Child who is Experiencing Anxiety | Toolkit 

 

Helping a Child who is Experiencing Low Moods | Toolkit

 

Helping a Child who is Experiencing Low Self Esteem | Toolkit

 

Helping a Child who is Experiencing Sleeping Problems | Toolkit

 

Helping a Child who is Experiencing Trauma | Toolkit

LGBTQIA+

Support & Intervention Team

Everyone tells at the Compton School. Please speak to any member of staff if you are worried about anyone in school - we also have 4 Designated Safeguarding Teachers in school to help too. We all have a responsibility to take prompt action if we are worried about the safety or welfare of anyone in school. We are committed to equal oppurtunities and inslusivity for all. 

 

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Urgent Mental Health Support

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Documents

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Children and young person guide to working together to safeguard children 20th May 2025 Download
Support for families 13th Aug 2025 Download